Starting with a first date with a couple of swingers, followed by working through social anxiety and shyness, evolving feelings about love and expectations, and a divorce — Cooper S. Beckett began leveling up in life and sexuality with threesomes, orgies, prostate orgasms, and other adventures.

For five years, Cooper S. Beckett has written for Life on the Swingset, a blog about swinging and non-monogamy. In this book he has collected personal essays, stories, erotica, and prescriptive "how-to" into this memoir of his life on The Swingset.

Beckett speaks honestly and earnestly about a unique way to live life, one that allows for sexual and loving growth and experimentation, a strong sense of community, and the ability to be honest with ourselves and others about what we want sexually.