Curious about threesomes or looking to make your experiences feel more connected, safe, and enjoyable? This high-energy, in-person class is designed to demystify three-person dynamics with warmth, humor, and zero pressure. Co-taught by two seasoned threesome participants and sex educators, we’ll cover sexual health and safety basics, active and ongoing consent, and how to navigate common hiccups (including some inevitable awkward moments!) with confidence and care. We’ll explore different relational constellations, like couples inviting a third, three independent partners, and hinge dynamics, and talk through the unique emotional and logistical considerations each can bring.

Class participants can expect a welcoming, inclusive space open to all genders, orientations, and experience levels, plus some playful (clothed) demonstrations to spark creativity and help you imagine what might work for you. Whether you’re just curious or already experienced, you’ll leave with practical tools and a lot of reassurance that it’s okay to laugh, learn, and explore in your next party of three. 

Important Notes:

• This class will be held IN PERSON at the Jupiter Hotel. Details on finding the correct room will be included in your reminder email.
• The ticket price is Per Person. Couples will require two tickets.

Gretchen Leigh is an educator, registered counselor associate, performer, and competitive strength sports coach dedicated to helping people connect deeply with themselves through physical, mental, and sexual well-being. With a background in mental health and strength training, Gretchen brings a trauma-informed, somatically-centered lens to adult sex education, approaching topics like strap-on play, advanced oral sex, and sex after cancer with the same grounded, empowering approach she uses in the gym and in the counseling room. Known for creating spaces that celebrate curiosity, creativity, and confidence, Gretchen can be found across Portland helping people discover new ways to feel strong in their bodies and pleasure alike.

Bee Tsuchen (they/she) is an Intimacy & Relationship Coach in Portland. Their practice focuses on supporting folks in queer and CNM relationships, and folks with developmental disabilities. Passionate about the importance of a healthy relationship to sexual expression and embodiment, Bee creates a learning environment that feels creatively engaging, emotionally supportive, and playful. 

A reminder email will be sent out 3 days before class and then again 6 hours before class. If you sign up within 3 days, please be patient in waiting for the final reminder email.

Registration deadline: 6 hours before class. No day-of cancellations.

We're offering a limited number of free class spots to folks with financial need; please fill out this form if you are interested. Recipients will be chosen based on need and will be contacted at least 3 days before class to confirm. 

Due to our commitment to paying educators fairly, all classes are excluded from sales and discounts.

Note: when signing up for classes online, please choose the "Class sign-up" free shipping option on the Shipping Method page at check-out.