Finding Your Libido After Life Happens: For stressed-out baddies and anyone who misses feeling turned on.

Remember when you used to want sex? When your body actually felt turned on, and not just…tired? Yeah, me too.

If stress, adulting, long-term relationships, chronic pain, parenting, world events (or all of the above) have left your libido in the dust, this class is for you. Join Dirty Lola for an honest, no-shame, we're all on the struggle bus session on what it means to reconnect with your desire when it feels like it’s gone missing.

We’ll talk about what actually impacts libido (hint: it’s not just hormones), how to quiet the “shoulds” in your brain, and why pleasure deserves to be part of your daily survival kit. This isn’t about “getting your sexy back” for someone else—it’s about getting back in touch with yourself and rewriting the script on what desire should look like.

Dirty Lola is an award-winning sex edutainer, speaker, and self-proclaimed dildo slinger. Known for her live sex ed, Q&A show Sex Ed A Go-Go, and as a Sexpert on the Emmy-nominated Netflix docuseries The Principles of Pleasure, Lola has spent over a decade working to end the stigma and shame surrounding sex and sexuality.

Having started her journey sharing personal discoveries with polyamory and kink online, Lola now uses her knowledge, warm candor, and public platforms to teach the masses in person and rapt Internet and television audiences.

This class will be held LIVE online via Zoom — Zoom links are sent out 3 days prior and then again 1 hour prior to class. If you sign up within 3 days, please be patient in waiting for the final reminder email, which will be sent out 1 hour prior to the class.

The class will be recorded and available for a limited time shortly following the class. Registration deadline: 1 hour prior to class Pacific time. No day-of cancellations.

We're offering a limited number of free class spots to folks with financial need; please fill out this form if you are interested. Recipients will be chosen based on need and will be contacted at least 3 days prior to class to confirm. 

Due to our commitment to paying educators fairly, all classes are excluded from sales and discounts.

Note: when signing up for classes online, please choose the "Class sign-up" free shipping option on the Shipping Method page at check-out.