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Stella Harris is a certified intimacy educator, sex coach, and author. You may have seen her perform at storytelling events, heard her on a podcast, or read one of her articles or books. She’s been offering sex, kink, and relationship workshops for more than a decade! Stella’s wide-ranging expertise has led to being featured on the evening news discussing the importance of sex education in schools, being sent with a press pass to a strip club to report on Stormy Daniels, appearing as an expert witness in court, and even speaking as an authority on banana slug mating habits. Stella is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes. Her short stories have appeared in numerous anthologies including Best Women’s Erotica and The Big Book of Bondage. Stella teaches classes for She Bop that focus on the topics of her books, plus many other subjects including: exploring bisexuality, queer safer sex, pleasure anatomy, and kink & BDSM.
Favorite G-Spot Toy:
The nJoy Pure WandThe nJoy Pure Wand is my favorite toy for g-spot and prostate play. Its curve, length, and weight make it easy to use on your own body to stimulate areas that would be difficult to reach by hand, and it's also easy to hold on to if using it on a partner's body. I also love that it's made from steel, which makes clean-up simple and safe to use with multiple people (after cleaning.) The metal can also be warmed up or cooled down if you want to add some temperature play to the mix. |
Favorite Safer Sex Product:
Nitrile GlovesI'm a huge advocate for using gloves during all kinds of sexy play. Nitrile gloves are the best bet because some folks have a latex allergy. For hand sex, whether you're stimulating a g-spot or prostate, gloves help soften any rough edges from fingernails or calluses. Wearing gloves also helps your lube last longer, as the skin of your hands won't absorb the moisture. Wearing gloves also makes clean-up much easier and helps keep track of fluid safety when playing with multiple partners. |