Seduction and arousal begin in the mind, and words are one of the best ways to titillate this erogenous zone. So it’s no surprise that dirty talk and sexting are such popular fantasies. But dirty talk can also be intimidating. Many folks feel overwhelmed about where to start or what to say, or are still recovering from a time they (or their partner) made a verbal misstep. 

Let sex educator and erotica author Stella Harris demystify dirty talk and sexting so you can add these versatile skills to your erotic toolbox. Want to spice up your correspondence even more? This class will cover exchanging photos and videos, too — from getting flattering shots to considering privacy concerns.

In this class you’ll learn: 

• How to negotiate dirty talk and sexting like any other sex act — what topics are welcome, what words you enjoy, and even what names you’d like to be called,

• Hard limits and turn offs,

• Basic tips, tricks, and scripts to get you started,

• How to create a dirty talk persona if you want one — plus all the reasons you can just be yourself, 

• Ways to get past feeling awkward,

• And more!

Stella Harris is a certified intimacy educator, sex coach, mediator, and author. You may have seen her perform at storytelling events, heard her on a podcast, or read one of her articles or books. She’s been offering sex, kink, and relationship workshops for more than a decade!

Stella’s wide-ranging expertise has led to being featured on the evening news discussing the importance of sex education in schools, being sent with a press pass to a strip club to report on Stormy Daniels, appearing as an expert wittness in court, and even speaking as an authority on banana slug mating habits.

Stella is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes. Her short stories have appeared in numerous anthologies including Best Women’s Eroticaand The Big Book of Bondage. 

Learn more at www.stellaharris.net or follow her on Instagram or Blue Sky. 

This class will be held LIVE online via Zoom — Zoom links are sent out 3 days prior and then again 1 hour before class. If you sign up within 3 days, please be patient in waiting for the final reminder email, which will be sent out 1 hour before the class.

The class will be recorded and available for a limited time shortly following the class. Registration deadline: 1 hour before class, Pacific time. No day-of cancellations.

We're offering a limited number of free class spots to folks with financial need; please fill out this form if you are interested. Recipients will be chosen based on need and will be contacted at least 3 days before class to confirm. 

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