Looking to level up your oral game? Whether you're curious, experienced, or somewhere in between, this guide breaks down the art of giving amazing head—with a special focus on how to give a good blow job. We’ll cover everything from the best positions for comfort and control to techniques that build arousal and anticipation. Expect expert tips on rhythm, hand-mouth coordination, breathing, jaw stamina, and how to create the most pleasurable experience for your partner (while keeping it fun for you, too).

Want to know what makes a blow job unforgettable? We'll dive into feedback-based communication, building trust, and confidence-boosting tricks for exploring fantasies or incorporating toys. This post is all about real talk: no shame, no pressure—just helpful, inclusive advice for people of all genders and orientations who want to give (and receive) better oral sex.

Because the best BJs are about connection, intention, and pleasure.