This BDSM exposé, written as memoir, reveals the wild world of femdom: dominant women and the submissive guys who crave them. Author Joyce Snyder, a 60-year-old, cat-loving spinster, would never have become a lifestyle domme were it not for her latest work assignment — editing a magazine for submissive men. To research her audience, Snyder begins experimenting with female domination. She finds a multitude of men, typically living a secret life, throughout America, and discovers their erotic preference is more prevalent than she'd imagined.
Determined to master the art of dominance, Snyder attends a convention of adult babies, joins a spanking society, gets served by sissy maids, learns how to penetrate a man with a strap-on device, rides a human horse steered by a penis lead, dates a wealthy man who craves electroshocks to his genitals, and acquires a slave. She details many aspects of femdom including ClubFEM, male chastity devices, a BDSM resort where women rule, consensual slavery, and findom (financial domination). With her newly acquired kinky expertise and superior attitude, it's hot and cold running subs for this over-the-hill mistress!