2014 AVN Award nomination for “Best Boutique”!

avn-awards-2014We were honored to see ourselves on the 2014 list of AVN Award nominees! For the fourth year in a row, we were nominated for “Best Boutique.”

Almost every shop in the Progressive Pleasure Club was nominated again this year, including the incredible shops Early to Bed, Smitten KittenSelf Serve ToysFeelmore 510, Good For Her, Sugar, and The Tool Shed. Congrats to everyone!

The 2014 AVN Award Show will take place on January 18th, 2014 at the Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Las Vegas.


How to Drive a Vulva

Sunday, February 16th — 7:30 p.m. — $20

Learn how to navigate the twists and turns of anatomy in a class designed especially for vulvas and the people who love them! In this playful, informative workshop lead by sapphic-savant, Allison Moon, you will learn all the basics, including: anatomy, communication, fingers and hands, cunnilingus, strap-ons and other toys, safer sex, plus a few super secret, pussy-ninja techniques! You’ll come away with new confidence to please a pussy no matter what your hands-on experience. This class is open to all genders, experience levels, and identities.

Allison Moon is a writer and sex educator based in Northern California. Her writing has been published in Not For Tourists, Nerve, McSweeney’s, and Psychopedia. She was recently named a fellow for the Lambda Literary Foundation’s Emerging LGBT Writer’s Program. As a sex educator, Allison has presented at the Center for Sex and Culture in San Francisco, Dark Odyssey, and Sexy Spirits in New York City.

This class has already taken place. Thanks for attending!


The Joys of Toys!

Thursday, February 6th — 7:30 p.m. — $15

AJ (aka Amory Jane) as a sex toy superhero!Join She Bop’s very own AJ (aka Amory Jane, pictured here as a sex toy superhero!) for an evening of education and fun. Ever wandered around a sex toy shop and wondered “what the heck is that?” Never fear, AJ will answer those burning (in a good way) questions and then some!

In this class you will learn how sex toys originated and have advanced throughout history. AJ will explain the different types of toys, what they are used for and what they are made from, including vibrators, dildos, kegel exercisers, anal toys, toys for BDSM and more. Of course, don’t forget one of the most important things of all… yes, that would be lube! AJ will go over the different types of lube, as well as the ingredients to be aware of when selecting the best product for you. She will also address how to clean and store your toys so that you can enjoy them for as long as possible.

Additionally, in case your loved one didn’t leave a detailed wish list for Valentine’s Day, AJ will give pointers on how to select a toy or gift for someone else!

This workshop is open to all genders and sexual appetites!

This class has already taken place. Thanks for attending!


She Bop’s Picks: Gifts and Stocking Stuffers

If you’re currently pondering what to get your significant other this holiday season, we have you covered! Here are our top picks for sexy holiday gift-giving and stocking-stuffing this year. Visit us in person or peruse our online store to snatch these up.

Plus, don’t forget to check out our picks from 20122011, and 2010 for even more ideas!



The rechargeable LELO Tara is one of the most innovative sex toys to come out all year, and as such, would make a fantastic (and impressive) gift! The slender, rotating shaft is meant to be worn vaginally during penetrative play with a partner, while the external disc vibrates against the clitoris. And you know what that means — stimulation for two!

 Seasonal Massage Candle Trio

Seasonal Massage Candle Trio

We’re big fans of Earthly Body’s regular Suntouched Massage Candles, so these seasonal scents could not be any more appealing! Each hand-poured soy-oil candle melts into a warm — but not too hot! — massage oil. This trio pack includes a 2-ounce candle in each seasonal scent: Candy Cane Lane, Sugar Cookie, and Harvest Moon. Pop the whole gift bag into a stocking, or separate the candles to spread the joy.

Toyfriend Ticklers

Toyfriend Ticklers

The whimsical designs of the Toyfriend Ticklers are sure to put a smile on your gift recipient’s face. These petite, single-speed vibes come in several shapes –  Bunny TicklerRebel Tickler, and Mystic Tickler – to suit many needs. Pick one depending on the type of stimulation your partner might like: the Bunny’s pinpoint ears, the Rebel’s solid tip, or the Mystic’s fluttery antennae?

Colt Grips Vibrating Nipple Clamps

Colt Nipple Clamps

If your significant other is into a little kink, nipple clamps could really rock their world. The Colt Grips Vibrating Nipple Clamps are great because they’re highly adjustable and, of course, they vibrate (which many people find enhances the pleasure of using clamps). Plus, nipple clamps can be attached to a stocking in a variety of amusing ways…

The Cookie Sutra

The Cookie Sutra

When we think of the holidays, we definitely think of food — especially freshly-baked pies and cookies. And so, The Cookie Sutra is perfect. This cute, amusing book is full of photographs of gingerbread cookies going at it in an array of positions — what else do you need to know?

Tenga Eggs

Tenga Eggs

These adorable little self-contained masturbation sleeves would look awesome tumbling out of an overturned stocking. Each plastic egg contains a super-stretchy masturbation sleeve and a packet of lube. Tenga Eggs, with a sense of playfulness and spontaneity, are perfect for solo or partner play. There are many styles of inner texture to choose from — is your partner a Twister or a Silky?

RFSU Condoms

RFSU condoms

Try something new with RFSU condoms — the official condom brand of Sweden! Made of the highest quality latex available, RFSU condoms are both durable and comfortable. Choose from Mamba (snugger fit), Birds ‘n Bees (textured), Profil (fitted tip), and Okeido (longer and fuller), or try several different packs and see which you like best. Each package contains three individually-wrapped condoms.

She Bop Massage Oil and Bath Salts

We work with the lovely Herb Shoppe right here in Portland to craft these 100% organic, delicious-smelling products. Now the question is, which would your lover enjoy the most? A long, sensual massage, or a relaxing, nice-smelling bath? Okay, maybe both… that would make for a pretty epic night!

Silicone Ball Gag

Silicone Ball Gag

If you like to get rough, don’t worry — we haven’t forgotten you! This impeccably-constructed, brightly-colored ball gag from Aslan Leather may look sweet and innocent, but it can also be a heavy-duty bondage implement. The leather strap features a snap-out safety design with a sturdy buckle closure, and the ball is 100% silicone, ensuring that it is entirely flavorless.

Red Faux Fur Handcuffs

Red Faux Fur Handcuffs

On the softer side of things, perhaps you’d like to try some light bondage with these Red Faux Fur Handcuffs? The faux fur lining is gentle on the wrists, while the velcro is hardy enough to keep the cuffs secure — and your playmate adequately restrained.

ON Arousal Balm

Need to jump-start the sexy times, or give yourself or your partner something to squirm about during dinner? With its lipstick-like presentation, ON Clitoral Arousal Balm is easy to apply, and the effects can be felt immediately. This balm creates a warming and tingling sensation that is hard to ignore. ON is glycerin-, paraben-, and menthol-free, with ingredients such as cinnamon bark extract and white beeswax.

Fuck My Socks Off

Fuck My Socks Off

Tuck this pair of charming yet vulgar socks into a stocking and it’ll be pretty clear what you want from your recipient!

The Big Book of Orgasms

The Big Book of Orgasms

While it’s hard to choose just one book of erotica to cap off the year, The Big Book of Orgasms is definitely up there. Esteemed erotica editor Rachel Kramer Bussel brought together 69 authors for this one, which features a heaping helping of the good stuff — intense, earth-shaking orgasms. As it should be.

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Shop Little Boxes 2013!

Little Boxes

Little Boxes — an independent, PDX spin on traditional Black Friday sales — is back this year! And we are very excited to be participating once again!

Shopping in Portland’s Little Boxes on Black Friday and Saturday is an alternative to the hubbub of the big box stores. It’s a great way to find unique gifts for everyone on your list, enjoy the hospitality and warmth of Portland’s independently owned neighborhood shops, have fun with your family and friends, and — just maybe — win some pretty incredible prizes, just by taking a stroll in Portland’s best shopping districts.

On Friday, November 29th and Saturday, November 30th, each visit to a Little Boxes participating business represents an entry into the huge prize raffle. Then, when you make a purchase at one Little Box, you’ll get a stamp. Show your stamp to the next Little Box to get a 10% discount. That means you can get a 10% discount at our shop just by supporting another participating business. Hooray!

Little Boxes is city-wide, but plenty of our Mississippi neighbors are participating, such as JetFlutterManifestoSalty’s Dog & Cat ShopAnimal Traffic, and Black Wagon.

Check out the full list of participating stores and the Little Boxes Facebook page for more information!


Labia Library emphasizes genital diversity

The Labia Library

Women’s Health Victoria, an Australian non-profit health and advocacy organization, was frustrated with the rise in popularity of female genital cosmetic surgery. So, after receiving funding from the Victorian Women€™’s Benevolent Trust, they developed a website showcasing the natural diversity of vulvas: the Labia Library.

Not only is it great alliteration, but the Labia Library is an awesome and empowering resource. The site includes an in-depth photo gallery of an array of sizes, shapes, and colors of vulva, with photos from both the front (while standing) and below (with legs spread). There is also an anatomy page and a page called “are my labia normal?

The site seeks to reiterate that what you see in magazines and mainstream porn is not what many vulvas look like. Especially in Australia, where the Classification Board requires that the labia minora and clitoris be airbrushed out of photographs in unrestricted publications. Women’s Health Victoria hopes to influence this damaging phenomenon, as explained in an interview with Cory Silverberg:

We’re going to be doing further advocacy with the Classification Board in Australia, in an attempt to influence the application of the guidelines in Australia. We’re hoping that they will cease applying the guidelines by removing the labia minora and clitoris, or that they will start acknowledging that they’re doing this with a statement detailing how images have been altered.

That is definitely a worthwhile endeavor. So go, support this excellent project and take a stroll through the Labia Library. (Sorry, we just had to say that.)

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Salon writer attempts to “think off”

Barbara Carellas, photo by Barbara NitkeIs it possible to “think off”? Ask Barbara Carrellas, and she’ll tell you yes. She believes we should expand the definition of an orgasm beyond the traditional, genital-focused one — she deals in “breath and energy” orgasms.

59-year-old Carrellas is a sex coach and the author of Urban Tantra. She contributed an essay to The Ultimate Guide to Kink and wrote the foreword to The Big Book of OrgasmsShe was in an episode of TLC’s Strange Sex, being wheeled into an MRI machine to demonstrate her ability to have an orgasm with no physical contact. Sadly, the results were inconclusive — according to the Rutgers researcher, Carrellas “moved her head violently during her session in the scanner, precluding data analysis.”

As the idea of erotic breathwork is still fairly new to most people, we enjoyed reading the experience of Tracy Clark-Flory, staff writer at Salon, who visited Carrellas and attempted to “think off.”

She walked me through each chakra, all the way up through my head. When she wasn’t guiding me through visuals, she breathed along, letting out exhalations that sounded like bedroom moans. “You’re turning yourself on in a molecular sense,” she purred and suggested that I make a bit more sound. “It can be a sexy sound, it can be a power sound.” I let out an “ahh” that barely registered on my tape recorder.

Before long, she instructed me to take “fuller, faster breaths.” My lips were dry, my mouth tight and vomiting seemed a distinct possibility. I began to notice that my hands were tingly. My three outer fingers felt curled tight, like I was involuntarily pointing . . . While my hands didn’t feel particularly good, the sensation was remarkable and unlike anything I’ve ever felt. It was an out-of-body experience or, more accurately, as Carrellas puts it, “a deeply in-body experience.” I liked it and was scared by it, all at once.

She had me take three deep breaths and then hold my breath while clenching and pressing my body into the floor. “No expectations. Exactly the right thing will happen in exactly the right time-space continuum,” she said. “When you’re ready, let go.”

Turns out, a lot of what Clark-Flory experienced are classic symptoms of hyperventilation — over-breathing. But researchers believe that hyperventilation can lead to altered consciousness. In fact, a few have even made the connection between hyperventilation and enhanced arousal levels. In one study, women who hyperventilated prior to watching an erotic film had “significantly higher levels of genital sexual arousal” during the screening than those who didn’t hyperventilate.

All Clark-Flory knows is that she experienced something unique. Carrellas, meanwhile, has a rebuttal for the hyperventilation claims: “People say, ‘Oh, well, isn’t this just hyperventilation?’ And I say, ‘If it is, it’s the good kind.’”


Erika Lust turns anonymous fantasies into reality

We are longtime fans of erotic film director Erika Lust, and her latest endeavor, XConfessions, is just the cherry on top of why we love her. Originally launched three years ago as a place for users to share their anonymous sex fantasies and stories, XConfessions is getting even steamier. Now, Erika Lust is handpicking her favorite confessions and turning them into hot short films!

XConfessions has over 20,000 registered members and 250 confessions, of which 8 have already been filmed. In “Hold Me So Tight it Hurts,” a woman experiments with rope bondage. In “Let’s Make a Porno,” Lust helped a real-life couple achieve their dream of being filmed. “I Believe in Happy Endings” follows a masseuse who uses her whole body to massage her clients (this scene is also featured in Lust’s Life Love Lust).

Scenes that have yet to be posted include “Sadistic Trainer,” in which a confessor fantasizes about torturing their gym trainer, and “I Pegged My Boyfriend,” which is pretty self-explanatory. Erika Lust brings her usual stylish eye to all of these films, with brilliant casting, set design, music, and camera angles.

Register and confess anonymously today, and you can even watch some short clips for free.

We’ll leave you with the intro to “I Fucking Love IKEA,” a confession from a woman who really really loves watching her boyfriend build things.

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Back That Ass Up!: Anal Sex 101

Thursday, January 23rd — 7:30 p.m. — $15

AJ (aka Amory Jane)Are you interested in anal pleasure but not sure where to get started? Already tried anal play but wanting to learn some fun tricks and techniques? Whether you’re brand new to the wonderful world of anal or already have some backdoor experience, this class is sure to teach you something new!

In this educational and humorous workshop, AJ will confront taboos, go over anal anatomy, prostate, and the G-spot, discuss anal penetration for beginners, and show great positions for anal sex. She’ll also cover safety and hygiene and give you the inside scoop on all the best lubes and anal toys! This class is open to all genders and sexual appetites.

AJ (aka Amory Jane) is one of She Bop’s in-house sex educators. She graduated with a master’s degree from Lewis & Clark College, where she studied Sex Therapy and Marriage, Couple, & Family Counseling. She has facilitated multiple discussion groups and taught dozens of sex education workshops around Portland and the Midwest. She also moonlights as a sex-positive relationship coach.

This class has already taken place. Thanks for attending!


Full-Bodied Fellatio

Thursday, January 16th — 7:30 p.m. — $20

What do you do when your partner lacks blowjob skills? Where do you go for training when you wish to improve your own? Here!

M. Makael Newby is a relationship coach and dance instructor with a particular skill for breaking physical action into components and teaching them with enthusiasm… and blowjobs are one of her favorite things. This class will educate both the givers and receivers. Come learn about creating anticipation, communication, preparing for success, hand skills, tongue tricks, prostate massage, deep throating, sloppy BJs, choking and forced gagging for both bio and strap-on penises. Live demo (on dildo) included.

Many of these techniques are included in My Erotic Adventure, her choose-your-own styled erotic novel. Get empowered to give and receive extraordinary head!

This class has already taken place. Thanks for attending!


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